I don't know what is happening to me but I like it when I can control their emotions or what they think about me but they are actually wrong. I like it when everything is planned.
My friend chatted me and I want him/her to know that I am angry but actually I am not then later on I controlled the situation and I know what are the possible events after and if it will happen I am happy but its bad right because Im fooling that person.
What should I do?
This games could be your defense mechanism bcs you afraid of genuine interactions with people since you might get dissapointed and your feelings might get hurt (probably happened in the past). You like to stay in control this why you pupetting/fooling/playing people, sort of preventive strike. If that works for you its okay but to me sounds like too much work and effort to avoid what is normal human emotions....
RomanT I would add to that. If a person is not willing to communicate truthfully you are not actually letting the other person know who you really are. And if that's the case the friend is in a relationship with a false person. If you wouldn't want that for yourself don't be that for someone else. I think the person asking this question should tell the friend what they are doing and try to think, why do I like controlling situations through inauthentic tactics ? Something to think about.
Hi! You have the same situation as my friend he love controlling the situation by playing his emotion. You should think twice it's good? Why does it makes you happy by fooling others? Is there wrong with me? Why I'm like this? Etc These are the questions you should ask to yourself and trying meditate and find the answers maybe you'll realize you're mistake. And you're the one who can help yourself