How to forgive cheating

Neyda_j

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years. Recently I got a message from a girl on Facebook who claimed to have had a relationship with him for 5 months (While we were together) until one day he suddenly cut her off, she wanted to know if I was her replacement. He admitted to it and said it was only a “sex” thing. I forgave him & since then he’s changed & been everything I want him to be but I can’t seem to stop bringing it up. I Want him to feel guilt, I want him to know how badly he hurt me. I bring it up almost daily and it makes me so mad at the most random Moments to think about it. Just recently, he said he had enough that he couldn’t change the past, he was sorry and he was doing everything for us to be in good terms but I was not helping. Will I ever get over? I know it’s not healthy to be bringing it up all the time.

missanonymous

First, I would start by not bringing it up almost daily. It’s like beating a dead horse. It happened and it’s in the past. I’m glad he’s changed, but be careful because he could cheat later on down the road. Second, go see a therapist and maybe bring your boyfriend with you. I wish you two the best!

SakkalMagar

First of all don't take any decision in anger. When you feel bad about it cry louder as possible you can, by this you feel better. If you want to forget him, do some imagination like, you meet him and kill, his body blast and dissappear, make his face funny, his voice, repeat many times. But I suggest you to bringing up because, 2 years relationship is not a joke. I don't suggest you to make him boyfriend again. Make him a good friend. You won't destroy negativity but you will make negativity into positivity.