Anger Issues?

Jms

I have this friend of mine. Before we met, became friends, everything seems pretty normal. But then, for the past few months, as I get to know her. She easily gets annoyed. There are times when we want to have some snacks, I was really hungry that time taht I didn't know where to eat, I can't suggest anymore. Then she gets annoyed to the point of being angry. It happes more often. Last time we were walking, she's holding a to-go coffee, I decided to somewhat scare her, not totally, I just held her butt for a second I think. And she's really pissed. I shouldn't have done that. But that ks not the point, my point is she's easily pissed. Even to her closest friend's she's like that. I wanted to ask if is it related to some lond of anger-issues? I wanna help her

AntagonisticArif

Jms Anger is always due to frustrating moment.
Anger is temporary

AntagonisticArif

I think she is tensed or may be in love with a guy who is not reciprocating her accordingly. May be she has some family issue etc.
You need to ask her.
Try talking to her

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It is wise to visit a mental health practitioner and not really a doctor because first you will need some therapy and counselling and this is what I went through too and I learnt great things : https://mangoclinic.com/5-most-significant-barriers-to-mental-healthcare-access-today/ ; let anger be out or convert it into some proactive energy otherwise untapped anger can erupt like a volcano anytime!

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There could be two reasons behind her behavior. Firstly, she doesn't really like all of the normal stuff which people generally do like pranks, the touches (like you did), and leg-pulling doesn't amuse her and she gets irked easily. Secondly, she might have a history of being bullied in school or somewhere else, this is why she becomes defensive. Another reason could be something that deep down disturbs her and she occasionally vents it out by showing anger and irritation. Please be kind to your friend and help her open up and try to solve the issue. Anxiety and similar stress disorders are also a reason behind these reactions. https://mmjdoctor.com/how-medical-marijuana-helps-with-anxiety/. It will make her feel normal and don't do stuff that might irk her as this can make her break this friendship and become lonely.

I wish you a friendship you both would cherish for long! 🙂

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Sometimes it takes time for a person to build trust in another before they can fully open up about their feelings. So just be patient with her, because apparently she's going through something that's causing this anger. https://esacare.com/emotional-support-animal-need-reasons/

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Her behavior points to some underlying cause that's probably bothering her. This cause has probably taken a toll on her mental health and she is compelled to act this way. She needs to undergo counseling by a mental health professional to better understand her issues. While you are at it, this guide on using marijuana for mental health may come in handy https://mmjdoctor.com/positive-effects-of-marijuana-on-mental-health/

EvaWoods

I suggest you talk to your friend and mention a few specific times she got angry over something small. Tell her she needs to reign in the anger because it's challenging to be around her when they act that way. Find friends who bring peace and feelings of kindness and acceptance into your life. Even love and safety. Choose wisely! https://esacare.com/emotional-support-animal-need-reasons/