How do i handle Friendship n Relationship problem?

SmileJewel

I have a best friend name Shirley( whom i have trusted) she meet a friend name Alvin(a boy from the same country with us). She introduce me to him on "online". We both talk days and nights for 3 days. After 3 days, Alvin send a text saying "I love you". Sadly that night i fell asleep while waiting his text. The next morning I saw the text and replied"I love you too" Me myself was shocked when i reply and started to prepare for school. When i arrived to school I told everything what happen to Shirley. That night me and Alvin became a couple. Things work out but not even a day Shirley kept telling Alvin to break up with me( which i can never understand). And on hangout with Shirley (no Alvin haven't meet outside yet) she told me that "You two didn't look perfect together and one day you both will break up" When she didn't bother us we never have an arguement. Just yesterday I ask her why do she want to break us up she answer because I care about you, You have never seen him and you are on a relationship you can't trust him he is just like a total stranger that why i m telling you to break up with him." Me and Alvin have never went on a date. Guys we three lives in the same country which mean it will only take about 10 or 15 min to meet each other. And of course Shirley spread bad rumors about me and saying me that she didn't. She bought every type of shirts that my boyfriend love(almost every design). And she told one of her friend that if she talk with Alvin that I could have kill her out of jealousy. If she tell me directly that she want to talk with him then i would have allow it. Instead she just talk with him behind my back. I just can't understand why did she say to me that she will leave her friendship with Alvin and saying to me again that i came back because "I miss him" please give some advice for this situation.

Psycho

SmileJewel
usually am a musician..............
so i will advice you that hear so much song about freedom.........about love....about friendship.....
some people think that song is just for feeling...no....they are wrong about it.....there is so much thing for learn....
song is like just a riddle ....you have to solve it ...then u can understand that............
careless whisper.....its a song.... hear that... u gonna love that song.....i can bet that.......... :p
well.............u know what..... if your boyfriend really loves you then he will not go after your friend or if your best friend really love you she will not go after your boyfriend....
u have to take it like a chess game mate....
dont do anything about your boyfriend or your bestfriend............
just watch and take exams of them............. it will not depressed you........... whatever will happen...........it will be real good for you..........
buy some popcorn and watch like a movie and guard as a spy............

after doing that you will feel like a monster feeling too.................... heh heh heh heh ?

Faizan0610

Friendship and love always needs compromise and sacrifice.
So anyone of you three should have to compromise in this situation to make this matter alright i hope so this will work and also eradicate selfishness. Thanks?

SmileJewel

Faizan0610 Thank you

Faizan0610

SmileJewel Welcome?

SmileJewel

Psycho
Thanks